CHILD DEVELOPMENT PEDAGOGY

Detailed explanation-1: -If you take the word “fear” and make an acronym with its letters you can find a working definition of most of our fears: False Expectations Appearing Real. We expect a false outcome, and we imagine it so vividly that it appears real in our mind – so real that even our body reacts as though it is happening right now.

Detailed explanation-2: -Unrealistic expectations are rigid. They don’t leave room for changing circumstances or allow us or others to be flexible. Sometimes the expectations might seem reasonable, fair, and realistic, but your experience reveals they can’t be met. Your expectations can also create more problems than they solve.

Detailed explanation-3: -These key signs can help you recognize patterns of unrealistic expectations: You feel stressed and upset when things don’t go as planned or your routine deviates slightly. You find plenty to criticize in yourself and others. You fixate on small details and find it very important to get everything right.

Detailed explanation-4: -Possible indicators that your expectations are too high in an unhealthy way: You have a painful history that you may not have fully addressed. You find yourself disappointed in others more often than you are grateful for them and their actions. You feel disrespected, a lot.